A Small Book for the Hurting Heart: Meditations on Loss, Grief, and Healing

“When we hurt and ask God ‘why?,’ we often are not looking for answers. Rather, our hearts are looking for comfort, encouragement, and Fatherly assurance that our world is not spinning out of control. In his new work, A Small Book for the Hurting Heart, my friend Paul Tautges points the reader to helpful insights from the best Answer of all, the Lord Jesus. Every page is filled with bite-sized wisdom from the Word of God, providing healing hope for every heart that hurts. I heartily endorse this small but power-packed book!”
Joni Eareckson Tada, Joni and Friends International Disability Center

“Grief is sometimes too burdensome to search for direction and comfort in Scripture. We want the encouragement of Scripture but don't have the energy to find just the right passages. In this little book, Paul has found those right passages and brought us into them so they can be brought into us.”
Edward T. Welch, Author of A Small Book for the Anxious Heart; faculty, Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation

“How often I have wished for this kind of resource to share with a friend in the throes of grief. A wise, seasoned pastor and counselor, Paul Tautges comes alongside the person in pain with short, encouraging, grace-filled reflections from God’s Word. These meditations will lift up weary hearts and tear-stained faces and help them find compassion and hope in the face of Christ.”
Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth, Author; founder and host of Revive Our Hearts

“A small book but massive comfort! I’m so thankful for the rivers of spiritual healing that will flow through this beautiful daily devotional into many wounded hearts.”
David Murray, Professor of Practical Theology, Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary; author of Christians Get Depressed Too and Reset: Living a Grace-Paced Life in a Burnout Culture

“Some people say that time heals all wounds. But it isn’t true. It is the Word of God, taken in day by day over time that brings healing to the deepest hurts of life and brings insight to the most perplexing questions of life. A Small Book for the Hurting Heart invites people to feed on truths from God’s Word, bringing comfort, hope, and healing.”
Nancy Guthrie, Author of Hearing Jesus Speak into Your Sorrow

“When our lives are touched by the ravages of the fall, and sorrow overwhelms like a flood, where do we turn? Paul Tautges takes us to Scripture to remind us that God is good when we walk in the sunlight without a care in the world, and He is good when we crawl in the darkness burdened with terrible pain and loss. Here is seasoned pastoral experience coupled with keen biblical insight, and here indeed is spiritual balm for the troubled soul.”
Stephen Yuille, Vice President of Academics, Heritage College and Seminary, Cambridge, Ontario; associate professor of biblical spirituality, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, Louisville, KY

“As the author says, ‘People who genuinely sympathize with you are hard to find.’ Paul Tautges speaks to our losses with genuine sympathy and wisdom from the compassionate standpoint of a pastor who has himself experienced loss. He weeps with those who weep (Romans 12:15). This book is saturated with Scripture, and the reader enjoys the cream of many hours of faithful study. James says that when we are tired we should ask God for the wisdom which we so desperately need. This book offers biblical wisdom to answer such a prayer. As I was reading, I was thinking of friends and counselees who would greatly benefit from the biblical wisdom contained in this volume.”
Jim Newheiser, Director of the Christian Counseling Program and associate professor of Pastoral Theology, Reformed Theological Seminary, Charlotte; executive director, The Institute for Biblical Counseling and Discipleship

“Grief and loss is a normal part of living in a fallen world. And yet two of the greatest challenges in grief is finding God in it and knowing where to truly find comfort in our sorrow. The book you hold in your hands reveals both. A Small Book for the Hurting Heart provides the answers so many Christians ask in deep grief, and guides the hurting heart to find the comfort God uniquely brings through his Word. This little book brilliantly demonstrates the skill of this author and faithful pastor to be sensitive to the deep pain of grief, and yet gently guides the reader with truth and empathy to find comfort time and time again in the arms of our Savior. As a pastor, I will be keeping a stack of this book on my desk to give out to any hurting heart seeking refuge in the one who truly brings comfort to our souls. I commend this little book and its faithful author!”
Brian Croft, Senior Pastor, Auburndale Baptist Church; founder, Practical Shepherding; senior fellow, Church Revitalization Center, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

“Reading A Small Book for the Hurting Heart by Pastor Paul Tautges is like sitting down with a godly comforter for some much-needed, refreshing, and caring consolation. Day after day (for fifty days) you journey through loss—with permission to grieve. And you journey toward healing hope—in Christ alone. This ‘letter of spiritual consolation’ will help you take your earthly hurts to your caring and comforting heavenly Father.”
Bob Kellemen, Author of God’s Healing for Life’s Losses and Grief: Walking withJesus

“Although loss and limitations are two of God's gracious contributions toward our sanctification, lament is how we express our grief to God as He leads us to hope. In A Small Book for the Hurting Heart, my friend Paul reminds us that God is nearer to us than our grief.”
Ronnie Martin, Lead Pastor, Substance Church, Ashland, OH; author of The Best Gift Ever Given; cohost of The Happy Rant podcast

“Loss, grief, and sadness are common human experiences, and no less common in the Christian life. In seeking comfort, it can be extremely hard to find. That’s why I’m thankful for Paul Tautges’s new book, A Small Book for the Hurting Heart. In the course of fifty devotions, Paul brings the hurting believer by the hand right into the pages of Scripture, and shows them where true comfort is to be found. He skillfully applies carefully selected verses to counsel the reader and ease their burden. I would encourage you to prayerfully give this book to those who are hurting, but keep a copy for yourself for when sorrows come.”
Nate Pickowicz, Author; pastor, Harvest Bible Church, Gilmanton Iron Works, NH

“We all experience trial, troubles, and tribulation. This ‘small’ book encourages the heart that is experiencing trouble and brings the light of God’s Word to the forefront. The Lord is always and forever our Anchor, and Dr. Tautges brings this truth to the heart. The truths in this ‘small’ but powerful book will be in my mind and heart preparing me for the next time I experience heartache. The heart of a pastor, counselor, and shepherd is evident throughout this insightful work.”
Bill Shannon, Associate Pastor, Grace Community Church, Sun Valley, CA; pastor, Anchored Fellowship; fellow, Association of Certified Biblical Counselors

“Aching hearts long for robust answers. You’ll find them here. Because the answers are rooted in the gospel, you’ll also find comfort, tender loving care, and unshakable hope. This book draws from biblical wisdom to apply the balm of God’s healing truth to the places you are broken. Drink deeply of the Living Water you find here, and find life.”
Betty-Anne Van Rees, Council Member, Biblical Counseling Coalition; board member, Canadian Biblical Counseling Coalition

“A Small Book for the Hurting Heart brings encouragement for the soul, hope for the heart, and an affirmation that the same God who created you remains with you through every challenge, hardship, pain, and disappointment. This daily dose of scriptural insight reminds us of God’s passionate love and plan for us in all of life circumstances. He is the God who redeems, and no tear goes unnoticed. Grab a cup of coffee, bring a highlighter or pen, and allow God to embrace you like a warm blanket.”
Steven W. Bundy, Senior Vice President and ministry chaplain, Joni and Friends

“This little book is a wonderfully steadying resource for the sufferer. From the pen of an experienced pastor skilled in comforting the downcast, these gospel-saturated and worship-inducing devotionals are packed with truth. They are rich enough for reflection throughout the day but also bring the benefit of brevity for the weary pilgrim. Sensitive without resorting to sentimentalism, these fifty meditations will lead you to soul-quieting delight in the character of Jesus, the Chief Sufferer, who has conquered all suffering and has compassion on the brokenhearted.”
Mike Riccardi, Pastor of Local Outreach Ministries, Grace Community Church

“This gentle little book lifts a fragile embattled soul with gospel-rich reflections on the fellowship of Christ’s sufferings, the compassionate sovereignty of the Father, and the abiding presence of the Holy Spirit. Savor these truths. Let them soak in and untangle your doubt, your anger, your bewilderment, your heartache, your loneliness, your fear. Believe and worship in the most powerful of all places: your pain.”
Sue Nicewander Delaney, Founder, Biblical Counseling Ministries

“Though Christians face the same painful hurts and hardship as unbelievers, believers don’t face life’s challenges alone. Paul Tautges points us to the Savior who has suffered for us on the cross and now walks with us in our distresses. These daily meditations will lead you in your sorrows to the God of all comfort and will show you the path to stability and fruitfulness even in your pain.”
Jim Berg, Professor of Biblical Counseling, Bob Jones University Seminary; executive director, Freedom That Lasts^®; author of Changed into His Image and Quieting a Noisy Soul

“Each daily reading of A Small Book for the Hurting Heart is anchored in gospel-centered hope. Tautges beckons the reader to gaze in wonder at Jesus: his steadfast love, his saving work on our behalf, and his power to redeem our deepest hurts for his glory and our good.”
Sara Wallace, Author of Created to Care: God’s Truth for Anxious Moms

“Life in God’s good world is one of joy intermixed with grief. Losses and crosses, trials and temptations call us closer to the Triune God who is sovereign, wise, and good. We need help! Paul Tautges’s A Small Book for the Hurting Heart delivers the help and hope of Christ. Through brief daily meditations, the warm voice of a wise friend will walk you through your season of grief and pain, and toward true healing and joy.”
Rush Witt, Pastor; counselor; author

“We are not likely to hear someone say, ‘please stop encouraging me.’ Everyone needs encouragement in their Christian life and for the trouble of each day. But those who are hurting especially need to be uplifted by the kind truth about God and his promises. Paul has written a wonderful devotional of daily encouragement for the troubled believer. You will want to purchase several copies to keep on hand to help others (as well as yourself) ‘count it all joy’ when going through difficult times.”
Stuart W. Scott, Professor of Biblical Counseling at The Master’s University